Always so grateful for your input. Yes! All I want is for people to dig their teeth into this and take something with them. What feels right and true? What feels a little off? Where can we add something more? Thank you for taking the time for it. May it grow you many flowers 💗
If we don’t talk about the “revelations” of porn in the lives of men we’re bullshitting. It tilted the universe. Towards hell. Look who represents women at the most critical time in a boys life now, in the most predatory and uncaring way. What’s he supposed to do? Seriously, what? Men are a total mystery to women.
Porn is every straight man’s nightmare fuel. How are these websites legal? It’s insane to me. It’s so bad. Ugh it’s so demoralizing! The popularity of PH and OF is a public humiliation of men and we’re in denial about it. Thats so… unmanly. And “porn” is certainly not for virgins. Jesus H Christ.
I looked up sex in the dictionary when I was ten and blushed. Slammed it shut lol. If I’d googled instead - I would have eventually committed suicide. No joke. Sex was such an omnipresent sacred mystery, but you could joke about it. Everything had a healthy tension to it at a certain age. That’s been ripped away. Women being sexually defiled and loving it is every boys subconscious worst nightmare. High def videos of women having sex are not entertainment for hetero men no matter how ethically they’re made. This is insane. This breeds legions of misogynists. Because their teen exposure was sexual abuse. And they’re gaslit about that. Told they liked it etc. unreal.
The Internet is merely a tool. The patriarchy, which goes back thousands of years, created what you label as "white men." Women are not to be human. They are baby-making machines. Period. That's the problem.
Neale, I have certainly come to terms with this. You’re right on many counts. However, at a certain point we must be more than aware of the structures that have bound us for, as you say, thousands of years. That’s what we need.
To me this is brilliant, beautiful, and full of opportunity to any person reading. This is rich soil.
Always so grateful for your input. Yes! All I want is for people to dig their teeth into this and take something with them. What feels right and true? What feels a little off? Where can we add something more? Thank you for taking the time for it. May it grow you many flowers 💗
If we don’t talk about the “revelations” of porn in the lives of men we’re bullshitting. It tilted the universe. Towards hell. Look who represents women at the most critical time in a boys life now, in the most predatory and uncaring way. What’s he supposed to do? Seriously, what? Men are a total mystery to women.
This is a great note. Thank you for adding to my thoughts!!
Thank you so much!!! I love it when people listen to me and reply. Thank you.
Porn is every straight man’s nightmare fuel. How are these websites legal? It’s insane to me. It’s so bad. Ugh it’s so demoralizing! The popularity of PH and OF is a public humiliation of men and we’re in denial about it. Thats so… unmanly. And “porn” is certainly not for virgins. Jesus H Christ.
I looked up sex in the dictionary when I was ten and blushed. Slammed it shut lol. If I’d googled instead - I would have eventually committed suicide. No joke. Sex was such an omnipresent sacred mystery, but you could joke about it. Everything had a healthy tension to it at a certain age. That’s been ripped away. Women being sexually defiled and loving it is every boys subconscious worst nightmare. High def videos of women having sex are not entertainment for hetero men no matter how ethically they’re made. This is insane. This breeds legions of misogynists. Because their teen exposure was sexual abuse. And they’re gaslit about that. Told they liked it etc. unreal.
The Internet is merely a tool. The patriarchy, which goes back thousands of years, created what you label as "white men." Women are not to be human. They are baby-making machines. Period. That's the problem.
Neale, I have certainly come to terms with this. You’re right on many counts. However, at a certain point we must be more than aware of the structures that have bound us for, as you say, thousands of years. That’s what we need.